{"id":8368,"date":"2021-12-06T08:35:27","date_gmt":"2021-12-06T15:35:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/?p=8368"},"modified":"2021-12-06T08:35:27","modified_gmt":"2021-12-06T15:35:27","slug":"no-expectations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/no-expectations\/","title":{"rendered":"No Expectations"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-3 is-cropped\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><a href=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/category\/307\/kids-bunnies-ducks-bears-+-pooh?p_sort_by=newest&#038;fn=nl_20211204193139\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/HGYTL7SK_MD-4.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"8372\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/HGYTL7SK_MD-4.jpg\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/?attachment_id=8372\" class=\"wp-image-8372\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/HGYTL7SK_MD-4.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/HGYTL7SK_MD-4-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><a href=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/category\/267\/inspiration-+-wisdom-spiritual-+-religion?p_sort_by=newest&#038;fn=nl_20211204193139\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/RYELE3OX_MD-5.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"8374\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/RYELE3OX_MD-5.jpg\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/?attachment_id=8374\" class=\"wp-image-8374\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/RYELE3OX_MD-5.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/RYELE3OX_MD-5-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><a href=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/category\/60\/bugs-ladybugs-dragonflies-+-butterflies?p_sort_by=newest&#038;fn=nl_20211204193139\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/OEUTBBSP_MD-4.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"8373\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/OEUTBBSP_MD-4.jpg\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/?attachment_id=8373\" class=\"wp-image-8373\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/OEUTBBSP_MD-4.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/OEUTBBSP_MD-4-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the things I learned as a teenager was to have goals but not expectations. That way you are not disappointed by things that are out of your control. I was just commenting to Paul this week, we are soon entering the 3rd year of the pandemic. The thing that helps me to face the myriad of unforeseeable challenges, is always looking for the silver lining, and not getting attached to any outcomes. This whole wild ride has been a long exercise in learning how to let go of expectations and live in the moment. It is a good time to learn how to meditate, if you have not already!<br><br>My mother-in-law had a lot of useful sayings. One of them was &#8211; &#8220;Life is what happens while we&#8217;re busy making plans.&#8221; She is gone now, but I think about her tidbits of wisdom often. I think as quilters we have our own version of that idea &#8211; &#8220;When life gives you scraps, make a quilt!&#8221;<br><br>As we slide through the end of this year, to the Home Base of the holidays, I am still thinking about the goals I want to set for the coming year. Now more than ever, I set my expectations aside. I will write down my list of goals, pin them on the wall, and go forth with hope for the future. The joy that I carry in my heart, which is the fire of creativity that we express through our art and craft, is what will carry me forward no matter what the next year brings. That passion for creativity is what binds us together, and I am grateful to share this journey with all of you. All we have is this day, this moment, and today is a good day.<br><br>&#8230;sharing your love of fabric,<br>Luana and Paul<br><br>Quilt\/Travel Calendar:<br>Jan 12 &#8211; Apr 9, 2022 &#8211; New England Quilt Museum (NEQM) &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/yVy3po63C94\">For the Love of Gaia<\/a>&#8221; exhibit<br>Feb 16-19 &#8211; QuiltCon &#8211; Phoenix Arizona<br>Sat, April 9 &#8211; &#8220;International Quilt Trends&#8221; lecture &#8211; NEQM Closing Reception<br>October 2022 &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/news\/travel?fn=nl_20211204193139\">Luana&#8217;s Polar Bear Tour<\/a> &#8211; Churchill Manitoba Canada<\/p>\n<strong>Share Post:<\/strong><br><a class=\"synved-social-button synved-social-button-share synved-social-size-32 synved-social-resolution-single synved-social-provider-facebook nolightbox\" data-provider=\"facebook\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" title=\"Share on Facebook\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.equilter.com%2Fblog%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F8368&#038;t=No%20Expectations&#038;s=100&#038;p&#091;url&#093;=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.equilter.com%2Fblog%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F8368&#038;p&#091;images&#093;&#091;0&#093;=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.equilter.com%2Fblog%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2021%2F12%2FOEUTBBSP_MD-4.jpg&#038;p&#091;title&#093;=No%20Expectations\" style=\"font-size: 0px;width:32px;height:32px;margin:0;margin-bottom:5px;margin-right:5px\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Facebook\" title=\"Share on Facebook\" class=\"synved-share-image synved-social-image synved-social-image-share\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" style=\"display: inline;width:32px;height:32px;margin: 0;padding: 0;border: none;box-shadow: none\" src=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/plugins\/social-media-feather\/synved-social\/image\/social\/regular\/64x64\/facebook.png\" \/><\/a><a class=\"synved-social-button synved-social-button-share synved-social-size-32 synved-social-resolution-single synved-social-provider-twitter nolightbox\" data-provider=\"twitter\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" title=\"Share on Twitter\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.equilter.com%2Fblog%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F8368&#038;text=Hey%20check%20this%20out\" style=\"font-size: 0px;width:32px;height:32px;margin:0;margin-bottom:5px;margin-right:5px\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"twitter\" title=\"Share on Twitter\" class=\"synved-share-image synved-social-image synved-social-image-share\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" style=\"display: inline;width:32px;height:32px;margin: 0;padding: 0;border: none;box-shadow: none\" src=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/plugins\/social-media-feather\/synved-social\/image\/social\/regular\/64x64\/twitter.png\" \/><\/a><a class=\"synved-social-button synved-social-button-share synved-social-size-32 synved-social-resolution-single synved-social-provider-pinterest nolightbox\" data-provider=\"pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" title=\"Pin it with Pinterest\" href=\"https:\/\/pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.equilter.com%2Fblog%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F8368&#038;media=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.equilter.com%2Fblog%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2021%2F12%2FOEUTBBSP_MD-4.jpg&#038;description=No%20Expectations\" style=\"font-size: 0px;width:32px;height:32px;margin:0;margin-bottom:5px;margin-right:5px\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"pinterest\" title=\"Pin it with Pinterest\" class=\"synved-share-image synved-social-image synved-social-image-share\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" style=\"display: inline;width:32px;height:32px;margin: 0;padding: 0;border: none;box-shadow: none\" src=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/plugins\/social-media-feather\/synved-social\/image\/social\/regular\/64x64\/pinterest.png\" \/><\/a><a class=\"synved-social-button synved-social-button-share synved-social-size-32 synved-social-resolution-single synved-social-provider-linkedin nolightbox\" data-provider=\"linkedin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" title=\"Share on Linkedin\" href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&#038;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.equilter.com%2Fblog%2Fwp-json%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fposts%2F8368&#038;title=No%20Expectations\" style=\"font-size: 0px;width:32px;height:32px;margin:0;margin-bottom:5px\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"linkedin\" title=\"Share on Linkedin\" class=\"synved-share-image synved-social-image synved-social-image-share\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" style=\"display: inline;width:32px;height:32px;margin: 0;padding: 0;border: none;box-shadow: none\" src=\"https:\/\/www.equilter.com\/blog\/wp-content\/plugins\/social-media-feather\/synved-social\/image\/social\/regular\/64x64\/linkedin.png\" \/><\/a>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the things I learned as a teenager was to have goals but not expectations. 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