Creative Nudge – Magic of the Holidays

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Here in Boulder, we actually had a true Christmas Morning "White Christmas"!

It snowed overnight, and the sun came up on a pristine and sparkling landscape.
When Mason and his friend
came to our house bearing packages in the morning light, their
footsteps were first to break the sheet of white that enveloped our
neighborhood.

There is something about waking up on a holiday to a fresh blanket of snow and a blue sky, that is so magical and peaceful.

During the holiday season, I always try to find a time to contemplate my
goals for the coming year.
As we clean our kitchens after the big holiday meals, and perhaps have a
moment to sit with a cup of tea and a calendar, those of us who love to
sew are starting to think about our goals for 2013.

Is this the year you will go on a creative retreat? Is this the year you
will enter a quilt in a show or a contest? Is this the year you will
sew a very special bed quilt for someone getting married, or a wall
hanging to celebrate an anniversary?

Perhaps this is the year that you start to design your own quilts.

Maybe this year you'll take your creativity in a new direction – making wearable art perhaps?

Could this be the year that you send in photos of your quilts to a magazine, with the hopes of seeing your work published?

Perhaps you will start to teach in a local quilt shop, or start a sewing group at a nearby school?

Many of you are thinking about contributing to our Sandy Hook Memorial Quilt Project, and you can read our recent developments on my blog, and network with others on our Piecing for Peace page on Facebook.

So many of you are making and sending quilts for our huge Hurricane Sandy quilt relief effort – to get warm quilts to 5000 people who lost their homes and possessions.

I am still thinking about my trip to Guatemala, and the quilts we gave to the elders and the children who had nothing.

We are so blessed to be able to think about our sewing projects for the
coming year.
The joy of working with color, design and fabric is a simple pleasure
that brings us inner peace, healing, and an opportunity to share our
passion with others.

I feel so lucky to have found this art and craft – don't you?

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Piecing for Peace – Sandy Hook Memorial Quilt Project

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Many thanks to everyone who wrote in to give us their ideas about a Sandy Hook Elementary Memorial Quilt project.

There are as many different ideas as there are people interested in helping!

Recognizing that we can't be all things to all people, we have set up a Facebook page so we can network, with a suggested set of guidelines for this project.
We already have a longarm quilter looking for a quilt group who can make a quilt top, for her to finish.

I am posting links on this Facebook page for fundraisers to help the victims, if you wish to donate money to the families. You don't have to be a member of Facebook to view this page!

I do not want to set up another comfort quilt drive sending masses of bed quilts to Newtown.
These people did not lose their possessions like the victims of Hurricane Sandy.
Our quilt relief effort for hurricane victims on the east coast must continue because these are tens of thousands of people who have lost their homes and possessions and need to keep warm for the winter.
Many sincere thanks to all of you who are donating to this disaster relief effort.

The families of Sandy Hook Elementary now are inundated with media,
memorials of candles and stuffed animals, curious onlookers and traffic
gridlock, donated packages and pillowcases.

As someone who has experienced losing a child, I can tell you that none of this is what those families need.
They need time, and a quiet space to grieve.
We can't just rush in and fix it for them, no matter how sincerely we wish to help.

You've written in that the quilts *should* include photos of the
children, and also that the should *not* have photos of the children.
I think each quilt group should decide this for themselves.

A few have written that they don't think the names should be on the
memorial quilt, lest it remind the family of what happened.
Seeing the names is actually a comfort for those viewing a memorial.
Think of the AIDS quilt, the 9/11 quilt, the Vietnam Memorial Wall…
have you ever seen someone tracing the name of their lost loved one on a
memorial? Remembering the name, the life, of those lost is a comfort
to the families.
This list of Sandy Hook names is already posted on our Facebook project page – "Piecing for Peace".

You've suggested handprints, hearts, doves and butterflies as themes and motifs.
Yes!

You've suggested including things that have meaning to the person who was lost.
A favorite color, hobby, etc.
This information is easily found searching online.
We have seen many articles with bios on each of the 26 lost at Sandy Hook Elementary.

We are going to pursue our connections in the Newtown area, and we are
also receiving messages from customers and friends in the community who
wish to connect us to school and community leaders.
As time unfolds, and you all move towards completing these group
memorial quilts, we will have a plan to present the quilts in Newtown.
We are open to anyone in the community there who wishes to work with us
long term.

Remember, we are looking for quality, not quantity.
Take your time and make every stitch a prayer, a hug, full of love and healing.
Each group quilt represents a community that has come together to unconditionally support the Sandy Hook Elementary community.

Possible dates for memorial quilt presentations are the end of this
school year (May 2013), the start of the next school year (Sept 2013)
and the one year anniversary.
(Dec 14, 2013) We may well give quilts on all 3 of these dates.

I'd like to suggest that you come together as groups, have one person do
one very special block for each of the Sandy Hook Elementary victims,
and then they will be joined together in a memorial quilt that can be
presented to teachers, families at Sandy Hook, community centers such as
the churches in Newtown, and also for the first responders.

As you organize into groups or round robins, and you all choose a name
from Sandy Hook Elementary to do a block, lets all take a deep breath
and know that there is NO rush on this, because this community, and
these families, will need tons of love and support for YEARS to come.
Take your time and make each block a MASTERPIECE of love, honoring the
life lost.

Art quilters are welcome to create blocks and contribute to this effort.
Use any and all creative techniques: piecing, applique, embroidery,
painting, photo transfer…it is a great opportunity to express your
greatest fiber art talents! As your group chooses a size for each block,
think about 26 blocks, plus one large panel (the size of 4 blocks) that
could have the school name, the event date, and a message of hope and
healing.
This adds up to a quilt of 30 block size ( 26 blocks plus 4xblock
panel).
You'll see what I mean when I post a few layout ideas.
This means the quilt could be 5 rows across by 6 rows down, for
instance.

I will work on a couple quilt design layout ideas for you this weekend.
I've been a little tied up with Mason graduating from college, Sam down
with a 103 degree fever, holidays and a trip next week, not to mention
kitties taking turns at the vet.
I posted photos from graduation on my photo page and Facebook.
We are very proud of Mason and his accomplishments!

Whether you are finishing Hanukkah, or preparing for Christmas or
Kwanzaa…we wish you a blessed holiday season with your loved ones.
Here in Boulder we are expecting a White Christmas!

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Sandy Hook Names & Piecing for Peace

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http://www.facebook.com/PiecingForPeace

Dear Friends,
Here is the list of Sandy Hook Elementary names, as
requested.

Charlotte Bacon, 6
Daniel Barden, 7
Olivia Engel,
6
Josephine Gay, 7
Dylan Hockley, 6
Madeleine F. Hsu, 6
Catherine V.
Hubbard, 6
Chase Kowalski, 7
Jesse Lewis, 6
Ana Marquez-Greene,
6
James Mattioli, 6
Grace Audrey McDonnell, 7
Emilie Parker, 6
Jack
Pinto, 6
Noah Pozner, 6
Caroline Previdi, 6
Jessica Rekos, 6
Avielle
Richman, 6
Benjamin Wheeler, 6
Allison Wyatt, 6
Rachel Marie D'Avino,
29
Dawn Lafferty Hochsprung, 47
Anne Marie Murphy, 52
Lauren Rousseau,
30
Mary Sherlach, 56
Victoria (Vicki Leigh) Soto, 27

The following
two pages, from the Wall Street Journal and CNN, had nice
write ups about
everyone (there is a little overlap).

http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424127887324481204578181244231543014.html

http://www.cnn.com/2012/12/15/us/connecticut-shooting-victims/index.html

We
have also compared spelling between the two and they are the same except
for
Ms. Soto who is referred to as Victoria on one site and Vicki Leigh on
the
other.

Many thanks to Hallie who put together this list today.

 

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Newtown Memorial Quilts

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Two weeks ago I was in a mountain village in Guatemala,
visiting the indigenous Mayans in their simple homes, and admiring the
beautiful textiles and embroideries they create on their front porches
with simple handlooms.

The village shaman – a beautiful woman around my age – was our guide as we visited the Mayan ruins of Iximche.

Iximche was the capital of the Kaqchikel Maya kingdom from 1470 until
its abandonment in 1524, and this archaeological site includes several
pyramid-temples, palaces and two Mesoamerican ballcourts.

(The photo above shows a huge tree growing on top of one of the pyramid ruins.)

As you may have suspected, the world is not coming to an end this Friday.
It is just the end of one huge cycle on the Mayan calendar, and the beginning of a new huge calendar.
Besides, it can't be the end of the world: our eldest son Mason is graduating from college on Friday!

I've spent the week thinking about how each day is a gift, and how life
really does whiz by too fast.
I distinctly remember complaining about how fast Mason was growing when
he was a preschooler, and then joking – "The next thing you know, he'll
be graduating from college! Haha!" – and now this day has come.

Saturday is also the 17th anniversary of the loss of our daughter Hanna, who inspired our charity program which has raised over $1 million for those in need.
On the day we lost her, even in the depths of my grief, I swore that somehow, something good would come of that loss.

So now we are all struggling with the great loss in Newtown, even as our quilt relief efforts for Hurricane Sandy are reaching a great volume.

As so many of you are making comfort quilts and bed quilts for those who lost everything in Hurricane Sandy, I also know many of you are yearning to honor the loss of the 26 in Newtown.

Here's my challenge.

Lets make beautiful memorial wall-hanging quilts for the families in Sandy Hook Elementary.

Here at eQuilter we are talking about making a group quilt for Newtown.

I propose that quilt guilds, church quilt groups, school art projects
and art quilt groups start to organize to make works of art that can
hang in the school, the classrooms, and the homes of those families…
to honor and remember the children and adults who were lost.
If we have enough, we'd like to get them out to the first responders
too, and the churches where the community has gathered to try to make
sense of this great loss.

One idea is a handprint and an embroidered name for each child or teacher, on each of the 26 blocks.

Each quilt will have 26 blocks – each with the name of one person – and also one central block with:
Sandy Hook Elementary School
December 14, 2012
* We Will Never Forget *

I will post a couple quilt design ideas for you.
I will use my
connections to have the finished quilts delivered directly to families
and staff at the school, and others directly affected by the event.

We have had many emails offering to send comfort quilts which I presume
are more like lap quilts or bed quilts, but I want to remind you that
that folks on the east coast, who are facing the winter after losing their homes and possessions to Hurricane Sandy, are still in dire need of quilts to keep them warm.

For Newtown I'd like to invite you to get together as groups, make very
special pieced – embellished – embroidered – memorial quilts with a
message of peace and hope that can hang on a wall to inspire and comfort on an emotional and spiritual level for years to come.

Give that some thought.
Write to us with your ideas.
We'll polish the details and post a page for this new project on the weekend in our next newsletter.

Thank you for your thoughtful and heartfelt comments, as we all contemplate what we can do to help support and heal the broken hearts in Newtown.

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Grief, Loss, Love and Healing

We can't pretend like this week's events in Newtown didn't happen, so I will just say that in addition to the
large volume of quilts we are trying to get to thousands of Hurricane Sandy victims
on the east coast, if you really want to make a super special healing
quilt for the families affected in Newtown, I will make sure that your
special comfort quilts get to one of those families in that school.

In the meantime, my connections on the East Coast write to me that
they are afraid that people are going to forget about the hurricane victims
there.
They write to me that in the worst affected areas, it is like living in a
war zone, and they can't imagine how long it will take for these tens
of thousands of people to have their lives back to "normal".

I am already hearing from quilters who've donated to our Hurricane Sandy effort, that they've heard back from the recipients.
Thomas
in Kansas wrote: "Sent mine to New Jersey, and even heard back from a tearful recipient who called me.
We were both crying over the phone.
She is elderly with sick husband.
They lost everything, even pots and pans.
I've made a friend for life."

In this season of giving, if your heart is yearning to help someone who
has suffered great loss in the last few months, we will help to get your
donated comfort quilt to someone who is suffering.

We can't guarantee that you'll hear from the recipient, but if you
put your name and contact info on a label on the back, and especially if you include a message of comfort and healing, it is more likely you'll hear from someone if they have the means to communicate.
We are grateful for all the quilters and guilds who have given unconditionally to this relief project.

One friend told me that since the power was out for so long after the
hurricane, and since so many pay their phone bill over the internet,
many were unable to pay their bill and then their phone service was cut
off! So not everyone has the means to communicate in those areas.

I am grateful that we can
stay in touch with so many of our friends and customers around the world.

If you wish to contribute to our
massive quilt relief project on the east coast,
please read our guidelines here carefully.

If you feel you want to make or donate a very special comfort and
healing quilt for Newtown, just email your name and contact info to
customer service this week and we'll let you know our plans in the near
future.
We are looking for quality, not quantity, for Newtown.

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Creative Nudge – Planting Seeds of Love

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Giving and receiving are two
halves of the same circle.
There are times when we are able to give to those in need, and there are
times when should open up and receive the help that is offered.
That is the spiral of life – the the breath going in and out – like each
heartbeat – and like the turning of the seasons.

There were times in my life that I was very much in need of help, and
fortunately I was able to open up and receive when others recognized my
loss and offered to give.
There are other times in life when I can respond and give when I see
others in need.
Some day I will need help again.

One thing I have learned is that it is equally important to know how to give, AND to be able to receive.
When someone offers a gift, or a helping hand, we are completing a circle of healing by saying "yes".

When we are moved to give, and we follow our heart, sometimes we receive the greatest gift by giving selflessly.

I have seen this last week in Guatemala when a team of 13 people donated
the gift of their time, and their caring, with no thought of
compensation.
The gift we received was that we felt more alive, more blessed, more
appreciative of what we have in our lives.

The joy in the faces of the children and the elderly who received donated quilts, was the kind of priceless gift that is beyond words.
I will never ever forget the tears of joy in the eyes of those who treasured the gift from a stranger.

As the quilts come pouring in for Hurricane Sandy victims, I know those who give benefit as much as those who receive.
There is nothing like giving a beautiful quilt, and knowing how much comfort and joy it will bring to its new owner.

As you make your handmade gifts for the holidays, and as you put a
little piece of your heart and soul in every stitch, it is like planting
seeds of love that will grow into a garden of peace and healing.

Like Johnny Appleseed, we travel through life planting these seeds of
love, and we can only dream of the orchards that will bear fruit for
future generations ….
as we give away our beautiful quilts to loved ones, and strangers, in
the holiday season.

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Quilts for Guatemala, Hurricane Sandy and Colorado Fires

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Quilters know that the
holiday season is all about GIVING.
..that's what we do best!

Between
our Hurricane Sandy
Quilt Relief project
, and my trip to support eQuilter's charity Mission of Love in Guatemala this week,
I am appreciating the smiles and warmth that your quilts are
sharing.

Last weekend 350 of
your donated quilts were distributed to Sandy victims in New Jersey,
and
this week I helped to distribute dozens of
quilts to children in Guatemala
. (donated to Mission of Love by Sue Jerin and her
friends in Ohio – thanks!)

If you read my midweek Creative Nudge
newsletter, you know that I got to sit in on an entire cleft lip surgery up
close, and was looking in on cleft palate surgeries as well. Kathy Price really
wanted me to see the work that eQuilter has
supported all these years
– and spending these 3 days with Mission of Love in Guatemala was
bittersweet to say the least.

On Sunday we gave a quilt to each of the
children who had come hoping for a surgery, and on Tuesday we brought quilts to
an orphanage in a mountain village. Twenty-five orphans were each wrapped in
their very own quilt, and given lots of love and hugs from our group. There were
many tears – from both the kids and the volunteer team – and I know at least a
couple people there started thinking about overseas adoption.

If you've
ever been to a developing country, and witnessed the grinding relentless poverty
experienced by people living in shantytowns and dirt-floor shacks, you have
doubtless felt the same emotions that I have: feeling very lucky to live in a
developed country, and feeling like you must do something to help the children
and elderly who are affected the most.

As I stood in a tiny one-room
"home" with a dirt floor and patched plastic-and-tin roof, and wrapped the
resident in a beautiful donated quilt, I gave thanks that I've found myself in a
job that allows me to connect wonderful generous quilters with those who are in
such desperate need. It is truly a blessing to have the opportunity to be the
intermediary…and be able to tell the story to those who
wish to listen
.

I am editing down my 3000 photos to a few hundred
that I am sharing on my photo
page
, so you can walk into those homes with me and see what we are doing
together. If you feel compelled to have a similar experience, go to the Mission of Love website and check out
the other mission trips scheduled for the coming year.

We also finished
distributing
the last few quilts for Colorado Fire victims
this last week, and now we
will put all our energy into helping those on the East Coast who are facing a bleak holiday
season after Hurricane Sandy.

Are any of you submitting quilts to Sacred Threads
next year
? I am! The submission time is coming up soon, so take a look at
their guidelines.

My sincere and humble thanks to Kathy
Price, and the team of surgeons, nurses and volunteers
who help Mission of Love on this and all of
their mission trips.

Be sure to check out the 6 Guatemalan
handloomed ikats
that I picked out at the market in Guatemala City. I
hand-carried them back Weds and they will be gone in a flash. YUMMY!

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Creative Nudge – Guatemalan Mission

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I have just completed my 3rd
day in Guatemala, and it feels like I have been here for a week! I am
here with one of our charities – Mission of Love – and the director Kathy Price who has organized a weeklong cleft palate/lip surgery mission in Guatemala City.

A team of surgeons and nurses flew in on Saturday, and we got to work on
Sunday, doing the assessments of all the children who came to the
Metropolitan Hospital hoping for a corrective surgery, and distributing
quilts and clothes to all the families.
I think everyone who came hoping for a surgery, is getting one this
week.
The children range from 2 months old to 18 years old.
Some have cleft palates, some have cleft lips, and a few have both.

I have posted 93 photos of the children on my photo page,
and tomorrow morning I'll be posting more photos from this trip.
Monday the surgeries started, and I was able to sit in on one entire
cleft lip surgery, (up close and personal) and also was in and out on a
few more cleft palate corrective operations.
The most rewarding thing is to see the parents' faces when they first
see their child after the surgery.

Tuesday we drove up into the hill country, to a small mountain town
called TecPan.
Up above the town is Way-Bi, where a children's hospice is being built.
We also visited a poor Mayan home where 3 generations of women were
weaving and embroidering the distinctive traditional Mayan textiles.
(see photo above)

After lunch we visited Mayan ruins, then went on a drive around the
community to check in on elderly Mayans who were living in extreme
poverty, and had nobody to help them with their medical issues.
Our team gave quilts to each of the elderly shut-ins, and arranged for
new hearing aid batteries, a new mattress, and some pain meds.
I will write about this in more detail on my blog as soon as possible.

On the way home we saw a group of about 50 Mayan village women gathered
in a field, and stopped to take a photo.
We ended up in the local shaman's yard taking a group photo! Then we
went to the local orphanage and wrapped each child in a new quilt.

It has been an amazing trip, and I am going to sort through what happened and write more about the experience.
Tomorrow I fly home, so I'll dash this off for now.
Be sure to check out my photos of the children at the hospital.

Are you starting to think about your creative goals for 2013? Feel free to share your thoughts here on my blog.

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Guatemala City – Assessment Day at the Hospital

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Today was one of those days where there was SO much packed
into one day, by the end of the day it felt like "this morning" was
yesterday!
 
Last night we had an organizational meeting and met the
doctors and helpers for the surgery. I was so exhausted by the time I went to
bed, I hit the bed and slept til my alarm went off at 6 am. We had a group
breakfast and then got on the bus at 7:15 am, driving through town to the
hospital.
 
If you saw the hospital from the outside, you'd never know it
was there. It is in a poor neighborhood and the buildings are a patchwork of
concrete and tin roofs. It is not the kind of neighborhood I'd want to wander
around in.. at night or during the day.
 
We entered the hospital and came into the assessment room. In
the next room there were dozens of families from all over Guatemala… parents
hoping that their child would be chosen for surgery. There were a few older
children, and one beautiful teen girl who had terrible scarring all over her
leg.
 
I appointed myself the official family photographer. While the
surgeon's assistants took the technical photos and took notes on the cleft
palates and cleft lips, I took photos of the human side of the
story:
 
The hopeful mother who tried to understand as the doctor's
diagnosis was translated.
 
The loving father who tenderly lifted his son onto the
examination table.
 
The teenage boy who burst into the most incredibly
heartbreaking smile as he left the exam, after being told he would receive the
corrective surgery.


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As the exams continued through the morning, we went out to the
many families waiting outside, and started handing out gifts to the mothers and
the children. First we gave them all a fabric tote bag. Then we gave each child
a handmade quilt. These quilts were donated by friends of Mission of Love in
Ohio. We had *just enough* quilts so that every child could receive one – whew!
We had 2 left over, and then there were one or two families that came later in
the day.
 
Then we began to distribute clothing and toys to the families,
and they put everything in the fabric tote bags. These people come from near and
far, and they have very little money or possessions, so these gifts were a
treasure beyond belief. The humble grateful smiles cannot be described with
words.
 
I should mention that when the C5 huge plane landed in
Guatemala City yesterday, it was stuffed with 10' x 10' huge paletts of relief
supplies, medical supplies, and clothing for the children. Much of this went on
trucks to a warehouse before distribution, but also much of it came to the
hospital. There were medical supplies not only for these surgeries, but also in
general to supply this community hospital.


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So as we distributed all these goodies to the children and
families, we took photos of all the children and the families. When I am able to
post these photos, you will understand why this team of doctors and helpers are
moved to come and volunteer their time to help these children. Everyone pays
their way to get here, pays for their own hotel, and contributes time and money
to this Mission of Love.
 
The assessment process had 2 teams of 2 doctors and several
assistants. To say it was intense would be an understatement. At one point I
suddenly felt completely exhausted, and I could have sworn it was noon. I was
shocked when I looked at my watch and saw that it had only been 2 hours since we
started! (8 to 10 am)  We all seemed to come to the same place at the same time
– and fortunately they were just finishing up with the last few
assessments.
 
Then the team went up stairs and had coffee and a snack. The
medical teams sat down to discuss their evaluations, and make the surgery
schedule for the week. It was interesting to hear them work out who would
receive which surgery on which day. This went on for quite a long time, then we
had a beautiful homemade lunch by the hospital's cook. The doctors had decided
to do 2 relatively simple surgeries for the afternoon, and our host took us out
to the Central Market downtown by the cathedral. On the way to the center of the
city, we passed shantytowns densely packed on the sides of the hills.
 
We also caught glimpses of the volcano that towers over the
city. Volcan de Fuego (volcano of fire) regularly seeps trickles of lava, which
can often be seen at night here. During the day there is often a cloud obscuring
part of the mountain, and I am hoping to get a good photo before I leave
Weds.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Volc%C3%A1n_de_Fuego
 
The market was also very intense. It is 3 floors of densely
packed booths, selling crafts, food, and almost anything you can imagine. There
were many children working there. Our host told me that the government only
supplies free education through 6th grade, but many drop out by 2nd grade to
help with the family business. We saw babies, children and teens throughout the
market.
 
Then we went outside and walked around to the huge historic
cathedral.
 
 (The market is underground, behind the cathedral.) We went
inside and spent about a half hour. I lit a candle for Hanna (as I always do
when I visit cathedrals around the world) and we watched all the women wearing
beautiful handwoven ikat skirts. 

The cathedral was facing a huge plaza with a fountain, and the
President's House is across the plaza. However the plaza was full of people and
a festival, and there was a huge line stretching around the plaza, full of
people waiting to ice skate!  The sides of the plaza were lined with more vendor
booths selling all kinds of beautiful Guatemala handmade products and textiles.
We walked through the crowd clutching our bags – there are many pickpockets and
gangs here, we were told.


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We drove back to the hospital, and found that the surgeries
were not complete yet. After 1 1/2 hours of waiting, we were told that the 2nd
surgery had just been successfully completed. I was able to go into the
operating room and see the 11 year old girl who had just had a golf-ball sized
tumor removed from her upper lip. She was still unconscious from the general
anesthetic. She was just a beautiful girl with a band-aid on her lip at that
point. What a miracle!
 
I am learning about what it takes to correct a severe cleft
palate. In the case where there is a huge hole in the top of the mouth, they
have to harvest bone from the edge of the hipbone, and put a bone graft in the
roof of the mouth. Aha, so that's how they do it!  The cleft palate is not
always apparent when you look at the face of the child. As I listened to the
doctors discussing their diagnosis and surgery plan, I also learned that many of
the children have fistulas too. The cleft lips are snipped open and then
stitched together. I am just trying to comprehend the whole thing.


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Another thing I realized quickly is that these trips are an
opportunity for the doctors to work on problems that they would hardly ever see
in the US. It is kind of like how a battefield surgeon is best equipped to work
in an emergency room – because afterwards they've seen it all. Every time these
docs come here, they see things they've never dealt with before. They put their
heads together until they agree on a diagnosis and a surgery plan. It is really
something.
 
So tomorrow I've been invited to come into the operating room
and witness a surgery first hand. Actually they offered to let me scrub up and
hold the retractors, but I don't think I can handle that. They said I can watch
as much or as little as I want, and that I can watch more than one surgery.
Anyway tomorrow 8 surgeries are going to happen – 8 children's lives are going
to be changed forever due to the unconditional love and generosity of this
amazing group of people.
 
I am curious if I can watch without passing out. We'll
see.
 
Tomorrow night we've been invited to attend the ballet recital
of the head doctor's daughter. Dr. Edgar runs this community hospital as a
community service. He is clearly there to serve the indigent people. The Mayans
are treated like 2nd class citizens here, and their children with cleft palates
are treated as outcasts. So it really takes awhile to comprehend the enormity of
what it means for this many people to come from the US to make this happen.
There are 13 people who have come from the US on this trip. The next Mission of
Love trip in February is for the Way-Bi Children's Hospice, and there are 23
people signed up for that trip.
 
The one-woman Force of Nature named Kathy Price simply cannot
not be described. She brings all of these people together, gets the Air Force to
airlift massive tons of aid for free, and manages to hug and kiss and personally
interact with everyone who crosses her path.
 
Several families could not make it to the hospital for
assessment today, because there was a terrible earthquake in their area (several
hours away) a few weeks ago. 
 
The doctors said that cleft palate and cleft lip is
statistically and genetically more prevalent in Latin America and Asia, and less
common in Europe and Africa.
 
Tonight at dinner I saw next to a 6 year old girl, (our bus
driver's daughter) and  I taught her songs in English, including the Itsy Bitsy
Spider, complete with hand gestures. She pressed me to "Play! Play! Play"" and
teach her more and more songs until she passed out at 9 pm.
 
I took over 900 photos today, so it will take me a little
while to sort through them all.
 
Tomorrow the big surgeries begin. It is going to be a big
day.
 
Tuesday we are going out to the countryside so they can show
me the school for the blind children, and the site where the Children's Hospice
is being built on a mountaintop.
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A Story To Be Told

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By the time you receive this newsletter, I will have flown down to Guatemala City today.
I am catching a 6 am flight in Denver, so I can meet Kathy Price (director of Mission of Love) and a team of surgeons in Houston.
We will fly down to Guatemala together, and they will prepare for a week of cleft palate/lip surgeries.

eQuilter has supported Mission of Love's work for 12 years, and during that time they have made many trips such as this to serve those who have nothing in Guatemala,
Honduras, Isla Mujeres, and elsewhere.
Finally, I decided since we topped the $1 million mark with our total
charity contributions, it is time for me to go along to support the
team, to take photos, and tell the story.

Sunday a few hundred families will come to the hospital for the
assessment day, hoping that their child will be chosen for the
corrective surgery.
45 children will be chosen, and I can't even imagine how hard it is to
tell most of the families that their trip to the hospital was for
nothing.
Kathy tells me that many of them come barefoot, because they've never
had enough to buy shoes.
These are the people we will serve during this week.

Monday will be the first surgery day.
I am taking a 2nd suitcase stuffed with toys and plush animals, to give to the children after their surgery.
I will spend the day with the families, supporting them before, during and after the surgeries.
It is going to be a long day, but what an incredible gift to be there on such a day.

Tuesday we are hoping to spend a day in the country, to visit the building site of Way-Bi, which will be a children's hospice.
I will write about all of this in my newsletter Tuesday night.
I hope to have time to blog each day, and post photos each evening.

So I just want to thank all of you for helping us to get to this point, where we can give Mission of Love and our other charities dependable ongoing support, so they can pursue big projects such as this one.

A couple years after we adopted Sophie, I went back to China on a McCalls tour.
One day I slipped out and visited a local foster group home that cared for orphans who were receiving surgery in Beijing.
They had come from all over China, and were either waiting for corrective surgery, or recovering from surgery.
Until these kids had their surgeries, they were unlikely to be adopted.
Their little lives were on hold.

At the end of this week, 45 young Guatemalan
kids will have the rest of their lives to look forward to…thanks to
the generosity of the surgeons who donate a week of their life, and the
diligent compassion of Mission of Love.

I am proud to support this work, and I invite you to come along with me
on this journey, as we see what our eQuilter donated dollars can do to change the world
for these 45 children.

We are collecting and posting photos related to our Hurricane Sandy quilt relief effort, and if you would like to donate a quilt (or many quilts!) be sure to check out the details on our project page.
The quilts are rolling in, and I know Friday one of our distributors
picked up 250 quilts to be handed out at a relief center this weekend.

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